Don't Bite The Hands That Bless You!

I have a confession to make. I'm  angry. 

I just finished reading a post on the Homeschool Share blog explaining why they have decided to remove all their FIAR resources, as a matter of concience, and I am totally stunned by many of the comments that post recieved.

For those of you who do not know, the Homeschool Share website is a labor of love produced by Ami Brainerd. Every one of the resources offered on the site is available FREE to users because Ami and a limited number of other volunteers are willing to sacrificed large amounts of their time to create them.

You would think that a woman who gives so generously to help others would be the subject of undying gratitude from the hoards who have done nothing but recieved free gifts from her hands. Yet, there is a number of people out there who feel it right to censure her because she made the decision to stop sharing a few of those resources. And that makes me mad. 

I've posted on this topic before, and I don't see how I can say it any better, so I am re-posting a blog article I wrote four years. Perhaps it will be a reminder to others out there to be more grateful for what they are given.

There's No Such Thing As A Free Lunch
If you have studied economics you are probably familiar with the expression "There’s No Such Thing As A Free Lunch." As homeschool moms who face an abundance of teaching resources, avaiable at the click of a mouse, with no cost to us personally, it is easy to forget this fact. But the truth is, none of those "free" resources are really free. Each and every one of them has cost somebody something to create them or host them and it is by their generosity that these resources are available to us. In return, we ought to consider it our duty to show gratitude for the benefits we receive.

Here are three easy ways to demonstrate your appreciation to these "silent heroes" of the curriculum world:

1. Don’t forget to say "thank-you". This ought to be obvious, but how often do we really send out notes of thanks for the freebies we receive? Most of these individuals ask for nothing more than to know that they have made a difference in someone’s life. Be dilligent to encourage those who otherwise receive no recompence for their labors and they will feel that all their time and effort was well spent.

2. Be fair in your critiques. Have you ever downloaded something and thought, "What a waste of my time! I could have done a better job than this!" or "This isn’t what I was hoping for!" Yet, the fact that you have no need of that item doesn’t make it less valuable to others that might download it, or make its creator any less generous for offering it.

As both a reviewer and a publisher on the Currclick website, I like to keep up with the comments posted there. Over the past several months I have noticed some very bad reviews being given to products which are offered as freebies. People download a file because it costs them nothing, then give a review based on how the product fit their needs, rather than on the quality and merits of the product. They do this without stopping to think what it cost that publisher to offer it in the first place or to consider what their review will do to the overall reputation of that publisher. I wonder how many of these publishers, after making such a sacrifice and receiving such a poor thanks, will have the desire to make that mistake again?

3. Respect copyrights. It is easy to assume that because a publisher is willing to give his product away, he has given up all rights to it. Yet this is not the case. Many publishers use free promotions to draw traffic to their websites and generate income to support themselves. Others offer freebies solely for the gratification that comes from helping others. No matter the reason, and no matter the price, these items are still under copyright. It is up to the publisher to decide where they are posted and who receives them. And it is also up to the publisher whether or not these items should remain free.

Too often I’ve seen examples of files being copied from various websites and posted on Yahoo Groups or on file sharing sites without the permission of the original creator. I ‘ve also witnessed conversations concerning limited time freebies. Someone who has missed out on the opportunity to download a previously posted freebie will request that the item be forwarded to her and someone else will send it. We may see these as harmless acts, but if intellectual property rights are not respected, more and more publishers will decide that these "free" products are not worth the cost.

I’ll end with a quote from Jessica Feliciano of Notebooking2Learn. I believe she voiced the thoughts of all our "silent heroes" when she wrote:

"For those of you who have been blessed by the free resources that you find here and elsewhere among generous homeschooling mom’s, please don’t take them for granted. They truly are labors of love and many times cost their creators much more than time. What some may not realize is the that the cost of clip art, printer ink and paper to make these resources and to make sure that they "work" before they are shared can really add up. If you are blessed by a free resource, consider taking the time to say thank you. It is a little gesture that goes a long way. Be considerate of the creators and make sure you link others back to their work and don’t just share a resource because it was free. Be grateful for the resources that are available and don’t make a habit of expecting more."

More posts on this topic:

• When Frugal Is Illegal by Kim Kautzer
• Thank You to all of my Loyal Readers by Erica of Confessions of a Homeschooler